Better than all the Rest

We care for our friends, we care for each other, we care for one another. We all have those friends that are the best of the best, Better than all the Rest! 

When we have a falling out with a friend, our parents always say, friends may come and go, but they don't understand! The friends we have we feel like they will be there forever and some of them might be. Friends are great to have around you laugh with them, you have private jokes and best of all you mess up with them and make stupid mistakes, but that's the fun in it, we make mistakes together and try fix it together, its all apart of being a teen. We have each others backs, well catch each other when  we see your about to fall, well stop you from hitting someone, so we can hurt them ourselves because that's what friends are for. We would do stupid things that we wouldn't think of with someone else like running around the school in a trolley as well as pushing each other down the stairs, in that trolly or jumping out a window just to get a cool picture or even crashing a party then leaving after 5 minutes and many more crazy things! These may sound like silly memories but that's what they might be to somebody else but to us, to us they were one of the best moments of our life. We all have our group of friends but don't close your group off, invite people to come sit with you or for a sleepover because all those people also want friends like you so be open to new ideas and new things because it could turn out to be one of the best memories of your life. " A true friend freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defends courageously, and continues to be a friend, unchangeably" William Penn , we have have those friends that are, the best of the best,    Better than all the Rest!

Who the hell knows

We are all asked who we want to be, what we want to become and what our dreams and goals are, we are asked when we are young, we are asked when we become teens and we are asked for the last time in matric. Well who the hell knows?

When we are young the only thing we think about is coloring your picture as best as you can so you can get a lollipop or to focus on making sure you actually nap during nap time but we never seemed to actually nap. Then we grew up a little and the only thing we focused on was the play date at the end of the day. By the time we got to grade 7 we focused on homework, well we were supposed to focus on homework. Grade 9 we are focusing on the rest of our lives, we are so young and so much pressure is put on us to chose what we want to do for the rest of our lives, speak about a big decision, at this age we don't want to think about the rest of our life, we want to think about that cute boy that you sits behind you math. By matric everyone is so focused on getting into the university of their dreams, and those dreaded exam finals. Parents push their kids to do what they want them to, but you can't, let us follow our dreams, you have made mistakes so let your children make them too, I'm sure you brought them up as lovely people but its now time to let them grow up and live their own dreams. Its harder to learn from someone else's mistakes than it is to learn from your own. Everyone asks you what you want to be when you are older, in grade one we want to be a princess or pirate, grade 7 a pop star or super model, grade 9 a doctor or lawyer and matric, well who the hell knows?